Along with asking dirty questions, there are also other considerations to take care of; such as body language, eye contact, when you want to extend your relationships with your partner. You should always converse in a natural voice, when you are talking about the dirty things with your partner otherwise it will sound as fake. You should also maintain eye contact with your partner. If you want to talk dirty to a guy, then you need to be commanding. You should make your dirty talk more powerful and effective. You can do this by adding vivid sexual descriptions to what you are doing or want to do.