Do not get discouraged when 40 plus singles are ahead of you in the game of love. You should take note that they are mature and had a lot of setbacks to go through in the past. Instead of competing with them, I suggest that you develop a good relationship towards them and ask them to help you out. I am sure that most of them are very accommodating and helpful towards your need. They serve as a pillar in the society that we can run to whenever we have problems in our relationships. They serve as a guide to help us understand the ways and means of every generations and personalities.